Memes About Quiet Space


Happy when quiet
Needed quiet time
Doing nothing is not laziness
Doing sweet F all
Necessary laptop time
Quiet space deprivation
Quiet time needed to cope with doing stuff


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  1. AnonymousJuly 12, 2023 at 10:58 PM

    Wow this is so so awesome!!! Resonates with me on a deep level. Gonna literally send these to people to help explain myself. Really wish I could write more but I’ve been up way past my bedtime absorbing these memes.

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